She's the Boss - A Husband Struggles in a Woman Owned Business Startup

Politicians clamor about how they need to supportgiven the pressure of time.
small businesses. Minorities and Women businessesSupply and Demand
need to get a fair share etc. etc. As the breadwinnerRecently we found an All-in-one package for
of the household for the past 15 years, I find myselfdrop-shipping that seemed to have a good portion of
struggling with which way to go... Back to work? or Putwhat we needed. I thought GREAT! This will save a
my time into helping my wife sell goods with anton of time! We would have our SUPPLIER! I signed us
e-commerce business?up and told her about it...
A little BackgroundThus began our argument over an email address.
I spent 20 years in IT in support of a huge school(laughs) They gave us a generic email address and
district, I had worked my way all the way to IT advisorhad our domain pointed at them. ONE email address
to the Chief Facilities Management officer and theand they would not add another because that was
Director of Transportation, but I left after gettingtheir policy. Now when you get into online merchant
aggravated from the seeming folly of overspendingaccounts, inventory control, order management and all
and mismanagement. The reason I bring this up is that Ithat stuff that goes with e-commerce it can get
KNOW first hand how government bodies spendcomplicated...AND EXPENSIVE. I wanted to get us up
money and just how much, it is what sparked theand running as fast as possible.
conversation with my wife about starting her ownGrowling in frustration... "Look Honey.. I mean Mrs
business and selling goods to them.President... What possible difference does an email
My wife is a A+++ personality, strong independent andaccount name make?"
without a doubt has strong convictions in her beliefs.My mind rolls over the thousands of options, the tight
She has a clear strong voice and was a DJ for abudget, and impossible time constraints. I wonder how I
number of years. She is also amazing at selling goodscan somehow convey this to her in a way she can
or putting together events. We have had manyunderstand. Finally she goes with it and says "Fine but
struggles in our marriage over the years... over control.if it changes you're buying my new business cards" It's
So when we decided she should be president/ceo ofnot the cost... it's that I could see the complexity and
the business, I could see her eyes light up. I worried ashe could not. This was the simple solution. I was right...
little but kept it to myself. I would be the technical guyI was sure of it.
for the business. It seemed logical to put both ourTwo days later as I search thru the thousands of
talents to work this way. So let's give it a go...inventory items I realize a few things about the
The Startup..ALL-in-ONE supplier.
Soon we were discussing business names and what
we would sell and how to go about it. Communication1. The products are a great value but limited in quantity.
is the key... And this is where we continue to run into2. They can't handle Tax-Exempt purchases for
difficulties. Our limited budget.... to me means... limitedcertain products.
time. As I work thru the complexities and expenses of3. They are less than responsive to our needs.
Order management, inventory control, suppliers, andAll in all.. I'm researching alternatives... (unfortunately
Search engine optimization, trying to convey thesemuch more expensive ones...sighs)
complex issues to her takes patience on both ourAND.. I will be buying some new business cards for my
parts and sometimes that is in short supply especiallywife.